Beyond the Classroom: Lessons in Friendship and Life in Solo, Indonesia
- Cherry Grace Tre-inta
- Dec 1, 2023
- 1 min read
Updated: Dec 2, 2023
As I reflect on my journey through Solo, Indonesia, it becomes clear that the lessons I carried back home were not confined to textbooks and classrooms. Amidst the cultural wonders and scenic landscapes, Solo gifted me a profound education in friendship and life itself.
Pakikisama: The Art of Getting Along
In the heart of Solo, I discovered the Filipino value of "pakikisama" transcending borders. It wasn't just about harmonizing with others; it was a dance of mutual understanding and camaraderie. The vibrant local culture and warm hospitality became my teachers, showing me that connecting with others goes beyond language—it's a shared human experience.
Shyra and Trisha: Unlikely Bonds, Unforgettable Friendships
In the mosaic of my Solo adventure, Shyra and Trisha emerged as the unexpected gems. Their presence was more than just companionship; it was a revelation. Despite our differences, our small "tampuhans" (misunderstandings) served as stepping stones, guiding us to meet halfway and discover the strength in our bond.
Lessons in Tampuhan: Meeting Halfway and Understanding
Our friendship wasn't always smooth sailing, but it was during those moments of "tampuhan" that we learned the art of meeting halfway. Understanding became the bridge that connected us, and each disagreement became an opportunity to strengthen our connection rather than break it.
Gratitude for the Unseen Gift: Friendship
Shyra and Trisha, the names etched close to my heart, became my companions in this unexpected journey of self-discovery. Their friendship was a gift I never knew I needed. Through laughter, shared adventures, and even the quiet moments, we wove a tapestry of understanding that transcended cultural and personal differences.
Thank You for Coming Into My Life
As I bid farewell to Solo, I carry not only memories of its palaces, tea plantations, and vibrant markets but also the profound lessons etched in the friendships formed. Shyra and Trisha, thank you for coming into my life. You've taught me that true companionship knows no boundaries and that the beauty of friendship lies in the unexpected moments and shared growth.
Solo, Indonesia, became more than a destination—it became a classroom where life's most valuable lessons were taught by the people who walked beside me. The journey wasn't just a physical exploration; it was a transformative experience that unfolded in the company of newfound friends.
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